Friday, August 15, 2008

My life is filled with Fridays

(**LONG POST Scrap news at the bottom lol)

I always wished it was Friday. You know how it is, you wake up for work on Monday morning and say something like " Oh boy, is it Friday yet?" Well, be careful what you wish for because every time I turn around now it seems like Friday. What happened to Saturday through Thursday? I have no clue. Moving right along..............

Here in Tennessee school has started. As part of my attempt to organize my life I have started saving all of my receipts in folders for each month so when I say "Where did all the money go?" I can look in there and cringe. LOL So I was putting in the receipts on Wednesday evening - after our hour and a half trip to Clarksville to do clothes shopping for Charles because he won't wear Levis or Wranglers, and I was doing the receipts for school shopping and if I hadn't been sitting on my bed I would have fell over. Nearly $500 in clothes and supplies! And we aren't done. Now mind you, although Charles likes the more expensive clothes I only spent $150 that evening on his. He got three pairs of pants, a jacket and 4 shirts at JC Penny for that $150 so it really wasn't bad. And just a little FYI Sales tax here is 9.75%! Even on food - which is a whole other issue - don't get me started lol. But anyway, we went and got sneakers for the boys - 1 pair each $105 and that was WITH the discount (I have a FootLocker/Champs VIP card) and a $20 coupon!! They are both in a man's shoe so I don't get lucky with John's shoes being cheaper anymore lol. I won't buy cheap shoes because their feet are too important. John gets work shoes/sneakers at Wal_Mart because they get stained and absolutely disgusting on the farm where he works but that's it. I still need to get their calculators - the stores are all out of course - and a couple of little things and more clothes. But for now, they have enough to get started. I won't buy paper towels, hand soap etc. I refuse. It ticks me off that they ask for it - it's PUBLIC education which means it's free. Now, on the other hand, when my boys tell me that the teacher doesn't have enough of this or that and I see photocopy sheets coming home on notebook paper or they are having a party or something in class I will buy a ream of paper or two and some other supplies because I know a lot of the time the teachers end up having to buy these things out of their own money and that's just not right. No wonder they are all stressed out. They all start with the wonder and desire to work with children - to help them and mold them - and then they get hit with low salaries, bureaucratic baloney, and parents who think that they are babysitters and do nothing to help the teachers out with discipline or academic issues. All of my boys teachers have my cell phone number and my e-mail address. I tell them all not to worry about calling me or e-mailing me if they have a question or problems. I don't play when it comes to school. We had open house on Tuesday for John and I think I scared his math teacher lol. I am so annoyed that the children are allowed to use calculators it's not even funny. What kind of baloney is that? When I went to school we had to use scrap paper to do our work and show it all. Now they use a calculator???? Big deal you can push a button. Then they wonder why this generation is the way it is. We make things too easy. We coddle them. Well, not me, there is a fight in my house at least twice per week per child because I insist on making them do it the way I was taught. Don't just spit the answer at me, I want to know WHY that is the answer. ARGH. His poor Math Teacher LOL She said well you know there are around 300 questions on the test. My response? "What's your point?" When I took the Regents and the ASVAB and PSAT and SAT in NY we spent all day on the tests and did each one the long way BUT we knew why the answer was what it was and if we lost electricity or our batteries died it was ok cause we still had good old fashioned paper and pencil and our battery was our brain. My favorite thing though is these parents who say "I can't help him/her, I don't know the work" OK fine, then let them teach YOU! By them teaching you to do it, you are still helping them study AND you are teaching them pride because they get the ego boost of being able to teach their parent something. Where's the downside to that? You don't have time or don't want to be bothered? Then don't have kids! I swear some parents treat children like puppies. You know, awww how cute. Then the puppy starts to grow up and it chews up your furniture, messes in the house, needs it's shots etc. Suddenly it's too much of a problem. Hello people, having children is a lifelong commitment. Can't commit, don't have kids. But, I digress. Sorry lol. OK onto scrapping news.



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2 comments:

Kelseyll =) said...

Wow..school starts early there. Our schools are starting next week where I live! =) Being a teacher I can appreciate your comments and hurray that there are supportive parents left in the world! There were times I wondered while teaching high school! I agree that basics must be taught but know that if they don't know the math operations of the basics they can't even enter it in a calculator. Calculators they use today of course are not the basic ones of the past either. There are things that I'm thankful of though when it comes to progression of education...like keyboarding! I would much rather have my daughter learn on today's computers than the typewriters I learned on! Keep on being an advocate and active Mom for your kids and expecting excellence!!!! You are awesome! =)

Deborah Claxton said...

AMEN to this blog!!!!! I agee with you 200%. I had the same reaction as you about the calculators. I ask my sons teacher "How is he learning his math if he is using a calculator?" My son is bi-polor, adhd and has depression and anxiety problems. He is in special ed, in 12th grade now and on a 3rd-5th grade level. And they have him using a calculator!!!! I'm like you I want to see the work. I want to see how he solved the problem so I know he is learning. Anyone can push buttons. And about these parents, you are absolutely right!!!! Half of them around where I live don't care what there kids are doing or where they are at as long as there not where they are at!!! I was a single mom with three kids, two grown now and the one in 12th grade and the whole time they were growing up they were saying the dreadful words, "You're mean!", "So and so's mom let's them go there!" "So and so's mom lets them do it!" My answer to those things were, "Well, I'm not there mother and if I were they wouldn't be going there or they wouldn't be doing that!!!" Someone told me once thou as long as my kids were telling me that I was mean, I must be doing something right!!! lol I'm stuck in a small little trailer park right now because I was laid off work and still unemployed. argggg!!! Anyways, the young mothers around here I coud whoop everyone of their butts!!!! They do not care about their babies at all. I told my mother the other day all these young mothers around here want to do is party, have sex and babies and then send them out to defend for themselves. I have 2 2 year olds, 2 three year olds and a 4 year old in my yard everyday that I am sitting outside watching. 1 to 4 hours at a time and do you know I NEVER see their mothers out one time looking for them or seeing where they are at. I watch them because I'm afraid they will get hurt, run over, kidnapped, molested or something and then when I tell them to go home I feel guilty!!!!! They don't even go home, they roam around the neighborhood by themselves if I tell them to go home. It's terrible. I have told my landlord on several occasions and she says "Well the good Lord will watch out for them." Maybe so but kids get abducted and come up missing everyday!!! It's not that I don't want them playing in my yard, its just the point that the mothers don't care what could happen to them or they would be watching them!!!! They come to my yard because I have a swing set, kiddy pool I let them get in, tricycles, little tents, small basketball goal, wagon, balls you name it and it's probably out there. I keep everything cleaned up but I have arthritis in my whole body and it just about kills me some days picking everything up out there when they get through with it. I hate to not let them play with it because they don't have anything at there homes. I have a four year old grandson that's why I have all that stuff but he is at daycare during the day!! I usually get him after 3pm when he gets home because he lives next door and wants over here all the time, which I don't mind. Me and my mother have spoiled him rotten!! But then I can always send him home too!! lol

I have just realized I have been rattling off so long and just about wrote a book on here. Sorry for venting so long, you just were on a touchy subject for me also!! lol